Be serious, gohnorrea or bladder inf?

Hi, this is a strange question but, I have always had severe bladder inf since i was little. I couldn't take bubble baths and things bc of it. And I always get kidney inf. I had a stone once. In my kidneys. Recently I heard a commercial giving symptom of gohnorrea. I never thought I would b able to have it bc i lost my virginity to my husband 5 yrs sgo. I was 15 hhe is the only person I've ever had any form of sex with, and we both get tested about every 6 months. Me more than him bc I get regular papsmears. Anyways I currently have a bladder inf that still isn't gone and it said that some women mistake it for bladder inf, and I'm having spotting and discharge but I just recently got mirena. So, Idk. My Dr said the side pain I was having was bc of my bladder inf but it didn't show pos for bladder inf til he sent it to the hospital. Then it was pos for severe bladder inf and I have the kidney pain. Etc. Thanks for ur opinion. If it helps I'm 19 in aug my husband will b 24 in Dec nd I we have a 6 mo. Old son. Also he was with other girls before me like 6 yrs ago. Thanks pls b mature. I hope I'm just freaking for nothing!